Dr. Jake Porter and Kim discuss the concept of 'Not a Casserole Widow,' exploring the unique challenges faced by women navigating divorce and betrayal. They delve into the emotional complexities of disenfranchised grief, the disorienting experience of the court system, and the importance of support systems. Kim shares insights from her own journey, emphasizing the need for women to advocate for themselves and find new ways to reframe their realities during this challenging time. The conversation also highlights the significance of understanding the difference between justice and fairness in legal proceedings, and the importance of emotional regulation throughout the divorce process.

Dr. Jake Porter and Kim discuss the concept of 'Not a Casserole Widow,' exploring the unique challenges faced by women navigating divorce and betrayal. They delve into the emotional complexities of disenfranchised grief, the disorienting experience of the court system, and the importance of support systems. Kim shares insights from her own journey, emphasizing the need for women to advocate for themselves and find new ways to reframe their realities during this challenging time. The conversation also highlights the significance of understanding the difference between justice and fairness in legal proceedings, and the importance of emotional regulation throughout the divorce process.

Kim shares essential steps to prepare yourself for a safe and empowered exit—legally, financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Whether you're in the early stages of divorce or actively navigating this path, you'll find practical tools and soul-deep encouragement to help you make wise, well-supported decisions, assured that God is with you through it all.

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(Additional Podcast, "When He Won't Change" from May, 2023.)

Lyschel and divorce coach, Kim Petroni, take advantage of time together at a conference to explore the question, “When do you know it’s time to move toward divorce?”

Questions explored:

1.When do you know it’s time to let the marriage go?

2. As a divorced woman, how do you see God’s love for you?

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(Additional Podcast, "Divorce Care" from March, 2024.)

Divorce feels similar to being widowed. You've lost your partner, you've lost the life and the future you thought you had, and you experience a significant amount of grief. Divorce after betrayal can feel isolating and overwhelming.

This is why Kim Hansen Petroni has written her workbook: "Not a Casserole Widow®" to provide education and cultivate self confidence in betrayed spouses pursuing divorce. Learn more about divorce after betrayal, and how Not a Casserole Widow® can help you feel more empowered and less alone in this episode.

(Additional Podcast, "Prioritizing Self Care and Healing after Betrayal" from November, 2023.)

We dive into the challenges many women face when dealing with emotionally lifeless marriages or divorce. Kim shares her personal journey and professional insights, emphasizing the importance of safety, grief, and reconnecting with God and self. 

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We discuss the common lack of support from the church and the critical need for understanding and compassion. Kim offers practical tools for healing across physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational aspects. This episode is a beacon of hope, reminding women that healing from betrayal and a stronger sense of self and community are within reach.

Divorce might seem like the obvious answer when betrayal occurs, but there are ways to save a marriage or relationship if the betrayer and partner are willing to step into healing. In this conversation between Dr. Jake and APSATS Certified Partner Coach and Supervisor, Kim Hansen Petroni, they discuss the topic of divorce after the betrayal from several angles.

Is it possible for attorneys to gaslight individuals in a courtroom setting? What are the signs that can help you identify this behavior?