Tending changes things: quietly, steadily, and often before we notice it happening.

All I knew was that somewhere inside my marriage—quietly, gradually, and without warning—I began losing the ability to recognize faces. Not strangers. Not distant acquaintances. People I knew.

If you tremble, you’re emotional. If you set boundaries, you’re high-conflict. If you cry, you’re unstable.

I grew up in a military family. My dad is a retired Colonel who was an army ranger. The cadence of discipline, sacrifice, and service wasn’t just something we watched. It was the rhythm of our daily lives.

Intuition is often described as a gut feeling , a quiet whisper that rises from within before our minds can piece together logic or evidence. It doesn’t rely on a spreadsheet of facts, a timeline of events, or even someone else’s validation. Instead, intuition is rooted in deep knowing—an inner compass designed to keep us safe, aligned, and aware. When you’ve experienced intimate betrayal , intuition can feel both like a gift and a curse. Many women recall moments when their

You show up to cheer for your child, heart pounding with love and pride, only to feel the air shift the moment their father arrives.

“Loyalty is not about sameness; it’s about turning toward each other.”

My face was not pleasant; I crossed my arms and looked at the stupid big cross on the wall in front of me and thought, “How could You?”

The story of the woman at the well has been dissected ad nauseam which is why I’m baffled when I still hear her referred to as a divorced whore. I do not believe the Samaritan woman at the well is a divorced whore.

Intentional forgetfulness collides with somatic recollections on April 13.

What make Jael flip from hospitality to homicide?

What would inspire a woman to drive a 2 foot tent peg into a sleeping man's brain?

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I saw something come across her face and she turned away from me.

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