If you've ever survived divorce, you know there are moments that don't make sense to anyone else. Moments so small they seem insignificant from the outside.

What if injustice isn’t something we’re meant to solve… but something we’re meant to process?

The story of the woman at the well has been dissected ad nauseam which is why I’m baffled when I still hear her referred to as a divorced whore. I do not believe the Samaritan woman at the well is a divorced whore.

My face was not pleasant; I crossed my arms and looked at the stupid big cross on the wall in front of me and thought, “How could You?”

All I knew was that somewhere inside my marriage—quietly, gradually, and without warning—I began losing the ability to recognize faces. Not strangers. Not distant acquaintances. People I knew.

What make Jael flip from hospitality to homicide?

What would inspire a woman to drive a 2 foot tent peg into a sleeping man's brain?

The Purgatory Pit This photo was taken when I was in the heart of hell. I'm on the left. I barely recognize myself. In my mind I...

Shortly after my D-Day (the day of discovery of deceit in my marriage), I received a call from a well respected pastor in our church....

Homeschool outings were the best! 🎧 Prefer to listen instead of reading? Click HERE. Here are some comments from my clients: “I have been a stay at home mom (SAHM) for 23 years, homeschooling our 3 children. I have no skills, no income, and our children are traumatized.” “I have been a SAHM for 16 years, homeschooling our 5 children. I gave up my career because we agreed it was in our family’s best interest. No one is going to hire me now.” “I have been a SAHM for 21 years,

I got a God hug today. My mom left me a note on my counter from an old family friend of ours. During one of the gaps in my schedule, I...

Here's a piece of hope to overcome a shame I carried for years. Maybe it will release you too.

🎧 Prefer to listen instead of reading? Click HERE. Fellow faith community, the betrayed feel forced to choose fabulous fibs instead of raw reality when they are in your presence. Here are some examples. Present day conversations among the faithful: Fabulous Fibs "How are you today?" "Fine. God is good." Meanwhile, her relationship just got rocked as her husband admitted to looking at a little porn... again. "You look tired today. Is everything ok?" "Oh, kids are getting o

🎧 Prefer to listen instead of reading? Click HERE. Running. Running. Running. Words keep running through my mind. My brain feels like it's on fire. I have questions but no words to form phrases. My stomach is full of poison that I can't wretch out. My arms feel heavy with the ache of holding my children's wails. My eyes are swollen from unrelenting tears. My breathe barely brings air into my lungs. I’m parting with the life I once knew. I'm scared to accept the truth in fr

🎧 Prefer to listen instead of reading? Click HERE . “I don’t feel safe going to church anymore. The voices of the people in the lobby vibrate too loudly for my already rattled mind. The pressure to smile at familiar faces, encouraging them to believe my life is the perfect dream they want it to be, feels nauseating. Walking into the sanctuary causes my heart to beat frantically and I’m forced to silence the intrusive thoughts of you watching those women on your phone. I

Court messes me up.

"Submissive." That word haunts me. I was reading a journal I wrote years ago and came across a line that made me shiver. “I know I just...

This blog has been an exciting journey for me. I have had the honor to be with many women as they overcome shame and fear in unbelievably...

I used to appreciate the balanced scales of justice. They made me feel safe and hopeful that our country pursued the best interest of its...

3 years ago, sitting in church, I listened to the masses sing, “He’s a good, good father” and I considered the most profound anti church...